Obituary of Victoria Elaine Elm

November 29, 1961 – September 20, 2025 

Peacefully surrounded by her loving family and friends, we are saddened to share that Victoria E. Elm, has started her journey back to the Sky World. Victoria was a cherished wife, mother, grandmother, and great-grandmother. 

Victoria’s legacy is carried on by her beloved husband Patrick S. Antone, her three children, Juilanne, Brittney (Brandon), and Quintin, and her twelve grandchildren: Reece, Deshanta, Jeremy, Lainey, Aislyn, Atlantis, Tey (Addisyn), Arrison, Sadie, Kehlani, Kyrie, and Otsistuhkwalahahtʌ́:ti̲'. Victoria was also blessed to meet and love her great-grandson, Amias Lake.  

Survived by her sister, Darlene (Harvey), and her brothers, Arthur Elm (Judy), James Elm (Ursula), and her sisters in law, Vicky, Kathy, Eileen, Shirley (Gilbert), Jude (Barney), and her brothers in law, Jeff (Linda), and Mike. 

She was also survived by her aunt Susie (Lawrence) Cornelius as well many nieces, nephews, cousins and friends.  

Victoria was predeceased by her parents, Florence Elm and Archie Elm, and her dear brother Anthony Elm. Also predeceased by her mother-in-law Mardelle Antone, father-in-law Gordon Antone Sr., sister-in-law Linda Antone and brother-in-law Gordon Antone Jr.  

While her physical presence will be deeply missed, her spirit, strength and love remain etched in the hearts of all who knew her. Victoria was a woman of quite strength and boundless love. She devoted her life to her family. She nurtured her children and grandchildren with wisdom, fierce protection, and a gentle heart. Her home was safe haven, her words filled with encouragement, and her love was unconditional. Victoria was also dedicated Oneida language learner and avid pool player. 

Victoria now walks with her ancestors, embraced by the creator, her journey here on earth now complete. Her memory will continue to guide us, her love will continue to warm us, and her spirit will remain with us always.  

Until we meet again, your light lives on in each of us, kunolukhwa 

Friends and family are invited to gather at the RIVER ROAD LONGHOUSE, on Monday, September 22nd, 2025 after 11 am where the Celebration of Victoria’s life will be held on Tuesday commencing at 11 am.  Interment Brethren Cemetery, Oneida.  

ELLIOTT-MADILL FUNERAL HOME entrusted with arrangements.  

Online are available through www.elliottmadill.com